Character Traits Entry: Conceited

Definition:
An overly favorable view of oneself and one's abilities, vanity, egotistism

Causes:
Being in an environment where others reinforce one's abilities or gifts with excessive praise (the star athlete, the genius with braggy parents, etc); a belief that bloodline, wealth or fame equals a higher self worth; overshooting confidence when battling low self-esteem or insecurity

Characters in Literature: 
 Malfoy in Harry Potter, Mr. Darcy in Pride and Prejudice

Positives:
The conceited character will often be the first to step up in a difficult situation, eager to prove himself or assert himself as superior. It is easy to egg this person on if needed, and they have both the drive and determination to get the job done. Conceiteds are noticeable and talked about, (not always in a positive way) but this trait stands out in a crowd and often accompanies wittiness. They can be counted on to put forward ideas and opinions when leadership or decision-making is needed.

Negatives:
Conceiteds have an opinion about everything, and often voice it. They are quick to anger or even become violent if their ego is called into question. Their own needs always come first and they avoid seeking help. If assistance is needed, they obtain it through manipulation to avoid appearing weak. Conceiteds find it almost impossible to be objective about themselves and only have the drive to improve if they feel they are already above all others and simply wish to 'widen the gap'. Very few Conceiteds have genuine friendships--they view relationships as stepping stones.

Common Portrayals:
The loud braggart, the jock who talks continually of his own contribution to the team; the coworker who believes she is the hub of the operation and shows false patience (adopting crossed arms or a fake smile, etc) as others speak or pathetically try to 'contribute' in some way; the professor who continually cites his degrees & books written; the socialite who name drops well-known personal connections and deliberately displays wealth to reassert importance.

Cliches to Avoid:
The 'perfect storm' character: wealthy, beautiful and popular (& flaunts it); conceited, overbearing men who turn out to be cowards; the flashy and rude celebrity; the handsome star quarterback airbag

Twists on the Traditional Conceited: 

• Conceited characters are often dismissed as shallow. Why not pair this negative trait with a noble goal, desire or undertaking?
• Bring about the epiphany of how this trait holds a person back by exposing your conceited character to another with the same trait.
• Show a Conceited battle this trait because of a desire to learn and grow, or connect with others in a meaningful way

Conflicting Characteristics to make your Conceited unique or more interesting:
Nobility, Selflessness, Caring, Lazy, Honest, Humble, Shy, Loyalty